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Lately browsing at Barnes and Noble bookstore I discovered a number of literature about happiness on screen. Apparently hearing have a happy beginning of the year hundreds of times in the initial few weeks of January is not sufficient to carry it about.
As I see it there are two fundamental truths to being happy.
Were in charge of our own happiness.
I understand that one is always hard to swallow Why should I have to take responsibility for my own happiness Why cant it just happen Like right now and even more often Upon the full details the other hand would you rather rely on the vagaries of destiny to determine when and how much you can be happy Accepting this truth is the first and perhaps most difficult step.
Happiness is a skill.
As Buddhist monk Matthieu Ricard dubbed the happiest man in the world based on MRI imaging of his brain while meditating writes in Happiness A Guide To Developing Lifes Most significant Skill happiness is something to be learned like participating in tennis or reading. That is empowering dont you think Because it means that rather than something that just happens happiness is something I can practice like my backhand and on the periods when We just cant seem to be to get there its more akin to my rugby game being off than it is about not being able to find happiness.
Still I often forget these truths while i get caught up in the hectic daytoday and find myself reverting to the good ol familiar myths many of all of us have been conditioned to believe.
Once I get what I want Sick be happy.
The new sports vehicle sixfigure job and window office or fantasy relationship may bring an undeniable excitement and satisfaction into your life but it wont be well before a new desire requires its place. Thats all right its your condition to be in a regular state of wanting. The secret to success is to savor the sense of desire and the process of moving toward its satisfaction to not associate it with unhappiness. Not really convinced You only need pick up the latest tabloid to see superstars demonstrating how limitless money adoration and excitement do not guarantee happiness.
If perhaps life werent so hard Id be happy.
Someplace along the way probably from watching quickfix TV SET sitcoms we developed the expectation that the arrears setting of life is straightforward and we are considered aback because it isnt. Separations layoffs injuries these are all bizarre aberrations that arent supposed to happen During those times when a lot more hard we tend to think Okay as soon as this difficult thing moves then I will be happy. The good reports we possess to put off happiness. The notsogood news it takes practice